I need to make money in a big way

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It’s starting to really hit me hard. Like so much so that I find I am shaking as I type this. I need to write about this to get this out so I can get back to work.

Our little family (Adam, me, M, and T), has always struggled financially. But we were ok. We are a one-income homeschool family that always found a way to make things work so I could be home with the kids. Initially, because they were little and then later, to homeschool. It’s where I wanted to be. Home with my kids. It’s what Adam and I long ago agreed that we would make work. It’s what we both wanted for our family, but I think Adam would have been happy with whatever I wanted. *I* wanted to be home with my kids since kids have always been what I am all about…that culminated in the ultimate goal of my OWN kids.

And I did manage to make a little money here and there with some home businesses. Nothing that ever took off in big ways, unfortunately. But I did make a fair bit of money over the years doing a few different things. I did an MLM biz at one point (not something I’d ever do again), I created and managed quite a few people’s websites, which brought in some decent money for a while…The most successful thing I did I’d say was my in-home “Mommy and Me” business when my oldest was little. I really loved that one! So fun! I even had so many people emailing me asking about how to do that biz that I wrote a book about it. Sadly, our home isn’t set up for that anymore.

Now our kids are 20 and 16. T is still homeschooling high school, so we are still working on that. M has some pretty big mental health issues we are working on getting her help to enable her to eventually launch. She’s nowhere near ready. This neverending pandemic has complicated EVERYTHING.

And then there are Adam’s work issues… Without vomiting all the details out onto the web for the whole world to see…let’s just say that he and his coworkers inherited their small video/audio production biz after the owner died. They’ve struggled ever since to keep it afloat. None of them signed up to be co-owners of the business, but they’ve done pretty damn well considering it’s not any of their skillsets, running a business. The biz was already struggling in a big way long before the pandemic hit. Then, COVID. Yeah. Didn’t think it could get worse. It did.

Actually, COVID helped in a weird way initially because for quite a while they got government help for paychecks. And then the relief money came to our family. But all of that has long since run out. And nothing has changed in the way of income. In fact, I think it has gotten worse. As in…never know when or even IF we’ll ever get paid.

So now we are back to both Adam and I scrambling to find ways to make money. During a pandemic. Which I do realize is the situation that SO MANY people are in. But I’m talking about OUR situation right now.

I had just started to think since we are all vaccinated that maybe I COULD actually go out and find a job and work outside the home again for the first time in over 20 years…and finally help out again financially. I mean, the kids are self-sufficient. And I really need to help pitch in financially. I WANT to. But then things with the pandemic kept getting worse and worse again. And now we’re at the point with hospitals filling up again and news of even people that are vaccinated are getting sick and I’m back to being worried to leave the house too much.

I’m not concerned about running errands or visiting with vaccinated friends and family…but the idea of working regularly at a job where I’d regularly be exposed to germs from the unvaccinated public…We have enough stress in our lives.

I have elderly parents and an elderly mother-in-law that all live in assisted living communities full of more elderly people. I see them regularly. I am not interested in putting any of these people at risk. Not when I know I can make money at home and keep them all safe and free from that stress. They all have enough stress.

We may all be vaccinated, but no vaccine is 100% effective and some vaccinated people are still getting sick. As I said, we have enough stress in our lives with all the money issues and the health and mental health issues with our parents. My dad’s dementia continues to worsen every day. He’s gone so downhill. He’s in need of being moved to the memory care facility, but they can’t afford it until the VA comes through for them with funds. Still fighting them for that. Another huge stress! And the mental health issues here at home. I seriously am NOT going to put one more thing on our plate.

At least we’ve all been healthy. My shoulder doesn’t hurt all the time anymore, so I am able to function again. (Twice weekly PT still, with my still limited mobility in that shoulder…but I’m making slow progress. And without the excruciating 24/7 pain, I can handle this.) I’m not going to risk bringing this awful illness into our lives. Even if it probably wouldn’t be fatal to any of us, it’s still a truly awful illness, you can’t predict how mild or bad you’ll get it, and we are already maxed out on stress here and we don’t need one more thing. It might not have to be COVID to kill you if stress as a result of that illness causes something else to take you to that point. And I have at least one elderly family member that could get to that point…possibly more. I’m not going to do anything that could lead to that.

I just feel like I’m maxed out and I don’t want to invite more into my life with that potential threat. We’ve stayed healthy and I want to keep it that way. And just deal with what is already on our plate. I’m rambling…but this is just a post to sort through these things in my head and get them out so I can get back to work. Bear with me.

So I am diving deep into developing one of my online businesses. The one that I see has the greatest potential to make the most money. Tina’s Learning Adventures

I have been working so hard on this biz for so long but my damn non-neurotypical (ADHD) brain has kept me from completing the work that needs to be completed and following through on getting this thing launched for so long. But now I am at the point where I NEED to do this. We NEED this to make money for us. NOW.

I have so much to give to homeschoolers that need my help. I have been already doing it for years and years. For free. I run our local homeschool community Facebook group. The largest and most active online group in our community. It currently has 1,587 members! And it is growing exponentially all the time! Especially this time of the year when newbies are scrambling to join us and get help at the start of their journey. I have helped so many people already. I LOVE doing it! It’s time that I dived deeper and started making some money for this kind of work, and help support our family.

We are literally at the point where I’m looking at our last hundred or so dollars disappear bit by bit (freakin out just a little bit here!) and know that we will need to borrow money again from another family member to pay the next bills. We already did that once (I hate that we have to do that!) And still, the tax money that would help us in a huge way is not here. By the time it gets here, it will all have to go to pay back these loans. *SIGH*

Adam used to work odd video editing jobs here and there to make extra money for us but there just haven’t been any in a while. (Hey, if anyone has any video editing jobs that need to be done…HIT ME UP! I’ll put you in touch with my hubby! This man is GOOD at what he does!) And depression also has settled in this house, making it even harder to push through anything and everything for many of us too. (I’m actually doing surprisingly well in this regard most of the time though…I think because I am on meds for anxiety, maybe it helps for depression as well?) But I know we can make it through this. We always do. I truly do believe we will make it out of this just fine. It’s just getting to the other side that is the hard part.

I KNOW I can provide an amazing online homeschool membership community for homeschoolers to help them on their journey. Especially newbies. I KNOW because I’ve already been doing it for years and years! Well over a decade of already doing this for SO MANY homeschoolers! Mostly moms, but some dads and grandparents as well! I have had people tell me that I am the reason that they ended up homeschooling! That’s such an amazing feeling, to know that I helped someone. Every time, it’s like an amazing feel. I LOVE doing it!

And I don’t want to change how I manage my local Facebook group in the process. I want to continue to provide that free community and all that it offers to our local homeschool community. I just want to have a paid community that will allow me to dive deeper and do a lot more hand-holding and dig into my creative mind (THANK YOU ADHD!!) and come up will all sorts of ideas to help my members in ways that I just can’t for free. I want to be able to walk them through things step by step. To help them individualize for their own children and their own homes. I want to help them do the research that they need to do to find their local info (because my members won’t all be local!) And I won’t have a problem spending a lot more time on this because I am getting paid to do this. And my husband and family won’t question the time I spend on it because it is my J.O.B. And I can FINALLY contribute to our family income again and help pay our bills.

Not to mention the fact that so much of the stuff I use on many of my websites cost money to maintain since I have various expenses including hosting and some awesome premium plugins that make my websites KICK ASS. So I really do need to be finding a way to fund that as well. I only bought these things originally thinking that I would eventually be making money on these websites, but it just hadn’t happened yet. Well, it’s time. Now I will.

I just need to find a way to get the word out and find families to join me and find my site. I have worked SO HARD on this site! I’m very proud of it!

Ok, I feel better now. I know I can do this. Now back to work on that membership community! I have a lot of content pages to complete!

My Favorite Doctor Who Quotes

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I am a HUGE Doctor Who fan. A Whovian.

And The Doctor has some amazing words of wisdom. And hilarious things to say.

I decided I needed a post to share some of my favorites, so I can refer back to these, for myself and share with others.

It’s just a must.

I will add to this as I find the time to find more.

So…in no particular order, here you go:

How to Find Your Sims 4 Gallery Favorites (PC with Steam)

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I have become seriously obsessed with The Sims. Like, OMG, I cannot wait to get to play every day.

I am working on my first Legacy Challenge and HOLY WOW has a whole new world of FUN opened up to me!

So recently I couldn’t for the life of me figure out how to find the things that I was favoriting in the gallery. And every tutorial with instructions on how to do this kept saying things about clicking on your profile image in the upper right-hand corner…which I don’t have. So I presume that’s either outdated info or for people that are playing Sims via Origin. I am not. I am playing with Steam.

So I FINALLY figured out where these darn things are, and I thought I’d make a super quick (under a minute) tutorial video to help other lost souls like me! If this helps you out, I’d love to hear about it in the comments! And share your username in the gallery or YouTube if you are a content creator! I’m always happy to learn of more great creators to follow!

Just Keep Swimming

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I have been trying really hard to get back on track with my websites lately. It’s SO DAMN HARD to stay the course! Even with my ADHD meds, I still find myself getting off track regularly. It’s a constant struggle!

I was only just finally diagnosed with ADHD early in 2020…even though I was pretty sure for years that I had it. But it’s only been a little over a year since I was able to get some medication to help. And I still am learning how to find my own groove. I know everyone has their own things that work for them. I’ve still got to sort that out for myself.

I’m slowly getting there. The meds are helping. I am getting more and more organized. I know I will never be a person that can maintain any kind of regular consistency. That’s just not me, and never will be. But I feel like I can find something that will work better for me, to be able to maintain a more sustainable daily routine for my house, for my businesses, just for me.

Things are better lately since the pain in my shoulder has finally eased up. That excruciating constant pain from my frozen shoulder is not just an occasional dull ache. Really it only hurts now and then and is only just a bit sore. Never like before. Even after physical therapy (now AT PT, it DOES hurt, but that’s PT for ya! I call it my torture sessions!) So this means that I can finally get life back to some semblance of “normal” and try to work again on my businesses. And try, yet again, to launch something that can make some money for our family.

I really know I can do this. I just have to keep trying until I find what works.

It’s just a matter of never giving up. My motto in life: JUST KEEP SWIMMING.